We’re not robots. We’re people. And in this industry we’re constantly meeting beautiful, dynamic, intelligent, and attractive people. Sometimes, that leads to romance. Many of our friends and us have met romantic partners on set and stage.
But sometimes it doesn’t. It can be uncomfortable when dealing with the unwanted or unwelcome romantic or sexual advances of a fellow actor, but they can’t hurt us. We’re on the same level. But when it’s coming from someone we associate with industry power—an agent, manager, casting director, director, producer, writer, executive—it can be downright nerve-racking.
Now, let’s be clear: We’re not talking about cases where there is mutual interest, or where no inappropriate or professional lines have been crossed and he or she respects your wishes after you’ve made it clear you’re not interested and wish to keep the relationship professional. That, of course, is fine. If no one ever pursued anyone, the human race would die out.
However, even telling an industry professional you’re not interested can be scary. What if they freak out and retaliate? What if they don’t stop after you clarify? What if simply
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