Much of this business is subjective and many of us have strong opinions. I love strong opinions. I love when people are champions for what they know and what they believe. However, we all need to be open to the other point of view. We all have a lot to learn. Want some actor and casting director examples? Read on.
1. Actors often ask me for advice on any number of topics: headshots, résumés, classes, workshops, or the touchiest of all…auditions! “I have a co-star audition and it’s only three lines. I prepared it one way but what do you think I should do?” I look at the material, add my two cents and… WHAM! DENIED! SHUT DOWN! Instead of simply listening to me, they defend their choices and essentially tell me I’m wrong. Let me be clear that I am not saying they didn’t agree with me, but rather they didn’t listen to me. Why bother asking for advice if all you’re looking for is validation of your own opinions? If you want someone to agree with you, call your BFF and tell them you need a shoulder. If you’re looking for actual advice, you should be prepared to listen to what someone is sharing. There may well be something you can take away from the
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